Ways to Relax Tight Shoulders (肩の力を抜いて!)

Some fellow members at the dojo where I practice have asked about ways to relax tight shoulder muscles.  What follows is my journey in this area and ways I have explored with the help of friends, my chiropractor, massage therapists, yoga instructors, meditation teachers and sensei‘s.  The article sections are as follows:

  • Background
  • Ways to Relax the Shoulders
  • Some Ways in More Detail

May this article be of value to all who may be experiencing a similar issue and in need of relief.  Please note the disclaimer below.*

Tension is who you think you should be.  Relaxation is who you are. – Chinese Proverb

Updates:  Dec 4, 2018 – Added a passive posture correction technique.


I have struggled with tight shoulders for many years in kendo.  Early on, I was likely oblivious to them – noticing them haphazardly after a shiai or keiko had I been stiff, slow, anxious or with an overwhelming desire to “win” or fear of losing.  During my years in Japan, a teacher and professor, Yokoyama Naoya (横山直也) Sensei, would admonish me with a gentle smile saying “Remove the tension from the shoulders (肩の力を抜いて, katano chikarawo nuite)” when he noticed my tight shoulders during practices.**  Then about ten years ago, when the tension and pain in the shoulder, upper back and neck area became more prevalent, I began a journey for relief and healing there.

Though still a work-in-progress, I have now become more aware of my shoulders and state of mind – and more relaxed there during practices and matches.  This is largely due to an array of tools and techniques acquired over the years and listed below.  Some, like deep-tissue self-massage therapy and posture checks, have become indispensable.  They have not only helped prevent, reduce or release the tightness in my shoulders.  But they have also helped me to strike hits with more ease and speed and to hold a more natural, relaxed and ready-to-strike kamae.  My body feels better and more responsive.

Ways to Relax the Shoulders

I list the ways below and expand on some of them later.  For me, the pressure-related and the passive posture correcting approaches provide immediate physical relief.  The mind-related approaches also provide relief  when the sources of the tensions are from thoughts and (my perceptions of and responses to) stressful situations.  However, the effectiveness of the latter approaches take some time to notice.

Some Ways In More Detail

  • Deep-tissue self-massage therapy (which links to an article with further details) and Lacrosse ball therapy are the most effective and immediate ways for me to relieve shoulder muscle tightness or pain.
    • If and when a massage therapist is unavailable, the lacrosse ball is my next best friend.  Though some hard-to-reach areas (e.g. under the arm and rotator cuff) may require some contortion of the body and a bridge pose for extra pressure.
  • Passive posture correction via chest-opening. 
    • There’s a number of ways doing this.  The one that I find easiest and most effective is a passive form while lying on the ground as shown in these two videos:
    • This helps correct my posture and release tension in the shoulders.  It also helps me have a good kamae and become taller, too 😉
      • Part of the cause of my shoulder and neck issues stemmed from poor posture when standing or seated especially when using a laptop for extended periods of time.  A combination of a head and neck positioned forward instead of above the spine, a forward leaning spine and forward-hunching shoulders placed a large amount of stress on the muscles struggling to support an unnatural spine structure.
      • The challenge is in noticing this since it is difficult to see ourselves.  “Ways to Check and Improve One’s Posture for Kamae and Well-Being” provides a way to check this.
  • Some stretching examples include these 60 Sec. Stretches to get Knots from Shoulders, Upper Back & Traps and yoga poses such as these 9 Yoga Poses to Help Relieve Neck and Shoulder Pain.  Many online resources can be found using, for example, the keywords: “Stretches (or Yoga Poses) for Shoulder Tension”.
  • Pole stick stretching refers to the use of a long pole (e.g. broom stick or bamboo pole) to facilitate deep stretching of the various parts of the shoulder muscles.  Here’s a couple of video examples: Rotator cuff stretches, Frozen shoulder exercise – pole mobility.
  • The Mind-related approaches have become increasingly effective for me.  At a shiai or shinsa, for example, thoughts racing through the mind, excitement, anxiety or a feeling of un-centeredness can arise which may contribute to inducing tension in the shoulders and body.  To counter this, the cited approaches can help calm the mind and body and eventually relax the shoulders.  Their value and effects may take a while to notice or realize.  Part of the challenge is becoming more aware of the mind and body, moving to that state of flow, or filling the mind with empowering and energizing thoughts.

Bon courage!

[Kamata]  This tip was suggested by Shigetaka (Shane) Kamata Sensei (Kyoshi, 8 Dan) (Thank you!).

[KendoNotes HabitsQuotes] “Additional Quotes on Managing Habits,” KendoNotes.com, March 16, 2018.

[KendoNotes_HabitsResources] “Resources on Habits – To Manage Them,” KendoNotes.com, Feb 28, 2018. 

* Disclaimer:  the content herein is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

** A way of noticing tight shoulders in others is by viewing their shoulder positions from behind when they are in kamae during a match.  One of the shoulders may be noticeably higher than the other.  Both may raised.  Or, the shoulders may rise (for example, just before initiating a strike).

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